Saturday, 9 December 2017

Being Confident is Important

You were born to be special. But, not all the people have more confident. Sometimes I feel less confident, and then I feel over confident (but don’t too over). Yeah, life is full of up and down. Talking about confident, many people think that only person who has perfect face that have more confident. And the reality, confident comes from your deepest soul. Sometimes the people didn’t notice that they have a power to be more confident.

Are you belong to person who have less confident? Don’t worry, maybe this ways will help you to be more confident. It is easy to be someone who feel comfortable everywhere. But, there are many people who still feel awkward even at the important moment. If you ever felt that thing, you need to try this way. Here are...

1. Be your self.

Just be your self. Be the best of your self. ‘Coz we have something unique that we don’t know. But, there’re many people who try to be someone else because they don’t have self confident. Just be you. Trust me that you’re unique and interesting.

2. Love your self.

No, loving your self isn’t selfish. It’s just one of the way, how you feel comfort and confident. Many people still don’t know that confident started from loving their self. So, if you want to improve your confident, just love your self babe.

3. Positive thinking.

Yap, sometimes this part is very easy to tell but hard to do. Let your mind always be positive, and then you will be confident. Let your problem go with the flow and everything will be easier. Though you’re in bad situation, but positive thinking will help you.

4. Stop comparing yourself with others.

Everyone has different story. So, don’t compare yourself with others. If you always do that, you will always less confident. You have “chapter” that other people don’t know. You have your own way to fight your “chapter”, so don’t compare with others and you will be more confident.

5. Do what makes you happy.

Being more confident is easy, just do something what makes you happy. Don’t force yourself by doing something that you don’t like. Then, what the correlation between what you’ve done with self confident? Yes, there is. When you do something that you love, it will make you feel comfort, feelings of happiness then you will be more confident. Trus me,It works. LOL


No More Private Message

“Hey, when will you come back from Paris?”

“Didn’t you see my instagram stories?”


“Oh Babe, please, use your social media account to know anything. And it will be fun”


It is not the first time, I heard or read about that. I don’t know what I can say about that. By the presence of modern technology will make the people easier to get communication. Yes, very EASIER. But, some of them didn’t know how exactly using the modern technology.  

For now, the people aren’t using SMS anymore. There are many app as a substitute SMS such as, line, whatsapp, BBM, We chat, and etc. Of course, you will get this app only from your smartphone.

By using smartphone, everything will be easier.You just need to download from playstore and get all the app that you want.  You can chat with your friend or join some group. Each of the app is also provide something new, and you can get it by update your app. For example, whatsapp can used for making stories. Now, it same with instagram.

I use whatsapp for communication with others and it very useful. Unfortunately, some people use this with something useless. How can I say that it is disturbing?  Because there are many people who feel “important”. When someone ask you, “where will you go tonight”, then they will say, “I think you must see my whatsapp recently updates”. It’s like no more talking privately. You just see their updates and you will know anything about them. *Sigh

What they get from that? Showing something to others that maybe not making others interest? You know that not everyone sees your stories and want to know more about you. And the bad thing is, when they start to send you a message privately, you just say “check my stories”. It means that, private message isn’t useful anymore. So, if you want to know what happen about your friends, you just need to see the instagram stories. See???? LOL.


Just Enjoy Your Own World

I always think that not all the conversation is important They just spend  their useless time.

Stupa       : Are you jobless? Why are you not looking some job?
Brillie       : Im not jobless. Just enjoying my “own world”.
Stupa       : Your “own world”? What kinds of that?
Brillie       : I just enjoy something that makes me happy.
Stupa       : Happy? Happy for what? Did you produce some money by enjoying your own world?
Brillie       : No.
Stupa       : what!!!! How come???? Are you happy by not produce some money? Are you crazy?
Brillie       : No. I think you are crazy. LOL
Stupa       : what the......

Sometimes, the people just don’t understand about other’s opinion. Then, they judge as they want. Yeah....that’s life. Even you do something that makes you happy, there will be someone who don’t like. And, remember that enjoying your “own world” that can’t produce money doesn’t mean you don’t need money. Everything needs money, right?


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